This is not aimed at anyone in particular, just life in general.
I have to say it is really getting on my nerves now, just how many people think they know you well and feel they have the God given right to pass judgement on others lives in a snap and having no facts whatsoever!
Judging people instantly without knowing them properly is totally wrong.
Its sad to know that even well-educated people judge others without knowing anything. People should be a little broadminded and not judge a person immediately, instead should try to understand the person and their situation .
You really do not know what goes on in other people’s lives. When we see others out in public, we don’t know a single thing about them. We may think we do, but we sure don’t. We just do not know, so why are we so quick to judge?
We are so quick to judge because it is what we do best. We place ourselves or sometimes others on a pedestal and either think more or less of others based on what we see on the outside. We think we are good at it, but in fact, we definitely aren’t. We often think we know everything, when really we know little to nothing.
Matthew 7: 1-3 says, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”
Why not take a look at yourself instead of spending so much time looking at others. We can easily call out others or point out their flaws, but we can’t do that to ourselves. This verse is so powerful and gives you a different perspective on judging.
Every judgment that you pass reflects a part of yourself.
The next time you are quick to judge, try talking to God about it and have him help you with this. It is very hard to tell yourself not to judge and follow through with it, that is why it is imperative to talk to God about it. Take a look into your own life the next time you feel the need to judge someone else.
No matter how you are people are going to judge you, let them judge .
When people judge you, it is less about you and more about them. So dont let their judgement affect you They’re just words, empty actions, background noise.
Dont feel sad about it. Just ignore them, stay strong and be your best.
Dear Judgemental Person,
Go ahead. Judge me. But you still don’t know me!
The ultimate judge is God, not YOU!
I am trying really hard not to judge you for what you said about me. I know that judging you for being judgmental of me, is a waste of my time & not my interest.
If there is one piece of advice I do want to say to a judgmental find a better way to be happy.
Because if you are constantly worrying about what I am doing in my life and how it is different from yours then you are obviously not happy living your own.
Try to find peace in your head where you can hold two opposing thoughts in it and be humble about it. Instead of wondering why people are different and hating them for it, maybe you should focus on your own life and maybe change the hate into happiness within yourself.